So you’ve thought about doing a boudoir session for ages, it’s crossed your mind many times but something always stops you, there’s perhaps a constant list of all the different reasons that pop into your head when you come close to jumping in and committing to it.
In this piece, we will break down those excuses and explain why they are more likely misconceptions and that there’s really nothing to worry about, if anything it’s time to get excited.
There are so many beautiful reasons why a boudoir session might be just what you’ve needed in your life. Of course, for most women, it’s the want and desire to be pampered and treated like a gorgeous supermodel for the day and of course, that is very appealing.
But there are a lot more serious life topics that boudoir can really help with.
Some have perhaps recently come out of a relationship and need a confidence boost to get back on their feet, some are sexual assault surviors and doing this will help them claim back power of ther beautiful bodies. There are even certain therapists that suggest it as part of a client’s treatment for body dysmorphia or eating disorders.
Whatever the case, boudoir is a liberating and sometimes life changing experience and is here to help you.
So let’s talk through some of the reasons why you are hesitant to book a session and why you actually have nothing to worry about.
I’m Scared / I Can’t Pull It Off
It’s easy to just say there’s nothing to be scared of but really….there isn’t. Boudoir sessions are guaranteed to be a judgemental free zone, will cater to your needs and comfort levels and are there to promote body positivity and self love for every client. We will be your biggest cheerleaders on this road to self-love, body acceptance, and empowerment.
I think the number one reason why a lot of women put off committing and booking a session is that they genuinely think that they will never look as good as others have in their photos. They say they don’t think they can or know how to look sexy at all.
We don’t expect you to know how to pose, that’s what we are here for. We’ll guide you through each pose, help you with facial expressions, eyelines and help you create the sexiest photographs.
Don’t Want To Pose Naked
Let’s get one thing clear, having a boudoir session does NOT mean that you have to pose in the nude. Whatever you choose to wear or not to wear whether it be lingerie, regular underwear, full clothing pieces, or nothing at all, the most important thing is that it represents the true you, compliments your beautiful body, and boosts your confidence.
If you do decide that you want to take the plunge and go commando. One common worry that stops certain people is the awkwardness with an unknown photographer that you’ve probably never met before. Again we can guarantee you that there’s definitely nothing left to worry about. We are there to uplift and empower you so there’s never any pressure. We want you to be comfortable and happy with the result so we will always do our best to bring out the best in you.
I’m Not In A Relationship Right Now
Boudoir is about celebrating YOU! Too many people have the idea that boudoir sessions are only for couples, booked with the intention to give the photo results to your loved one to spice up their love life. And yes this may be true for some women and it’s a great gift idea for your partner but you don’t need anyone to give the photos to.
The majority of women are doing it for one person and one person only and that’s themselves. Seeing your beautiful self in a new light is positively life-changing and extremely liberating. This is about investing in yourself and discovering a new sexy side to you.
I Need To Lose Weight First
We all know the saying that the camera adds 10 pounds but with great photographers who know how to set up expert lighting and have the knowledge of the correct poses, you will probably be shocked with the results. Properly fitted lingerie that compliments your body will also do wonders with accentuating your beautiful figure.
At the end of the day NO ONE needs to lose weight in order to feel that they can book a boudoir session, every single body is perfect at every stage in life and should be celebrated and admired.
I Don’t Have Anything To Wear
This excuse is an easy one to debunk. There’s a common misconception that you have to wear lingerie in boudoir photos and this is far from the truth. Of course, if spoiling yourself with a new sexy bodysuit or lingerie set for your session is just what you had in mind and desire then go for it! But you can also find exactly what you need from your closet.
We can guarantee that everyone has something in their wardrobe that can be used in a boudoir shoot. A cute pair of heels, an oversized t-shirt, a fitted crop top, a lot of sexy looks can be achieved with all of these items and make for a very steamy shoot.
Remember if all else fails, you can always wear nothing at all and drape a silk sheet or a piece of patterned material over your body.
So there you have it, your misconceptions have been solved and this should leave you thinking that there’s really no more excuses left and now it’s time to jump in and book your boudoir session, have fun and enjoy the experience.
Remember boudoir for you and is about capturing your beauty and power as it is right at this very moment in time. Embrace it and get excited to step into, unlock and uplift your true beauty.
